TO CRITICIZE OR NOT It is time for Five Minute Friday , and the word for this week is criticize . When we do the five-minute writing, we are supposed to just write and not worry about editing. But I always find myself editing, because I want to try to make sure it sounds coherent. So here's my offering with a little bit of editing: Criticize is a word many of us don't like to hear because of its uncomfortable connotations. Maybe someone has criticized you a lot, with much of it unwarranted. Or maybe you have been the one to offer unsolicited criticism. But we don't have to criticize in a way that brings someone down. CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM Sometimes, we want constructive criticism because we've written a piece, have some music to share, or have authored a book. We've put a lot of work into these projects, so when someone criticizes, we might take it personally at first and be hurt by it. Yet, we do want to improve, don't we? So, wouldn't it be better...